{"id":1357,"date":"2026-09-19T18:35:01","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T18:35:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/?p=1357"},"modified":"2026-09-19T18:35:01","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T18:35:01","slug":"elif-yalcin-annesinin-gecmisi-hakkinda-neredeyse-hicbir-sey-bilmiyordu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/?p=1357","title":{"rendered":"Elif Yal\u00e7\u0131n, annesinin ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hakk\u0131nda neredeyse hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bilmiyordu."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bildi\u011fi tek \u015fey, annesi Aylin\u2019in onu tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve Elif on iki ya\u015f\u0131ndayken ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi a\u011f\u0131r bir hastal\u0131k sonucu hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011fiydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Babas\u0131n\u0131 sordu\u011funda ise Aylin hep ayn\u0131 cevab\u0131 verirdi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Baz\u0131 insanlar gitmeyi se\u00e7er, k\u0131z\u0131m. Biz kalanlarla ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif zamanla soru sormay\u0131 b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yirmi sekiz ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011finde \u0130stanbul\u2019daki b\u00fcy\u00fck bir otelde organizasyon sorumlusu olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyi \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015fti. Kimse onun \u00e7ocukken her do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fcnde kap\u0131ya bak\u0131p hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 babas\u0131n\u0131n gelece\u011fini hayal etti\u011fini bilmiyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O ak\u015fam otelde \u00f6nemli bir davet vard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kristal avizeler yan\u0131yor, garsonlar masalar aras\u0131nda sessizce dola\u015f\u0131yor, salon klasik m\u00fczikle doluyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif konuklar\u0131 kontrol ederken ya\u015fl\u0131 bir adam\u0131n kendisini uzun s\u00fcre izledi\u011fini fark etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Adam yetmi\u015flerinin sonlar\u0131ndayd\u0131. Gri sa\u00e7lar\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn taranm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve elinde eski, deri kapl\u0131 bir foto\u011fraf alb\u00fcm\u00fc vard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir s\u00fcre sonra Elif\u2019in yan\u0131na geldi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ad\u0131n\u0131z Elif mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Evet. Tan\u0131\u015f\u0131yor muyuz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ya\u015fl\u0131 adam\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Benim ad\u0131m Hasan Demir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif bu ismi daha \u00f6nce hi\u00e7 duymam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan titreyen elleriyle alb\u00fcm\u00fc a\u00e7t\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130lk birka\u00e7 sayfada eski aile foto\u011fraflar\u0131 vard\u0131. Sonra bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn foto\u011fraf\u0131nda durdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif\u2019in nefesi kesildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Foto\u011fraftaki gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n annesiydi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aylin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Beyaz bir elbise giymi\u015f, yan\u0131nda gen\u00e7 bir adamla g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif foto\u011frafa yakla\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Bu kim?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan cevap veremeden salonun b\u00fcy\u00fck kap\u0131lar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130\u00e7eri ellili ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sonunda bir adam girdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif \u00f6nce onu tan\u0131mad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama adam foto\u011fraf\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc anda oldu\u011fu yerde durdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki renk \u00e7ekildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Bu foto\u011fraf\u0131 nereden buldunuz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan ona d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlatman\u0131n zaman\u0131 geldi, Murat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif\u2019in kalbi h\u0131zland\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Murat yava\u015f\u00e7a ona bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u00f6zlerinde Elif\u2019in y\u0131llard\u0131r aynada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ayn\u0131 kahverengi ton vard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan derin bir nefes ald\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Otuz y\u0131l \u00f6nce Aylin ile Murat birbirlerini seviyordu. Evlenmek istiyorlard\u0131. Fakat Murat\u2019\u0131n ailesi Aylin\u2019i kabul etmemi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan, Murat\u2019\u0131n babas\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve onlar\u0131 ay\u0131ran ki\u015fi de oydu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Murat i\u015f i\u00e7in Almanya\u2019ya g\u00f6nderildi\u011finde Hasan, Aylin\u2019e o\u011flunun ba\u015fka biriyle evlenece\u011fini s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Murat\u2019a ise Aylin\u2019in onu terk etti\u011fini anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130kisi de buna inanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aylin o s\u0131rada hamile oldu\u011funu hen\u00fcz \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gururu k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in Murat\u2019a ula\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan y\u0131llarca ger\u00e7e\u011fi saklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ta ki birka\u00e7 ay \u00f6nce eski evini bo\u015falt\u0131rken Aylin\u2019in kendisine y\u0131llar \u00f6nce g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi bir mektubu bulana kadar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mektupta yaln\u0131zca tek bir c\u00fcmle vard\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMurat\u2019a bir k\u0131z\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemek sizin vicdan\u0131n\u0131za kalm\u0131\u015f.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan\u2019\u0131n sesi titredi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Korktum. O\u011flumu kaybetmekten korktum. Sonra y\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6ylemek daha da zorla\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Murat \u00f6fkeyle babas\u0131na bakt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Bana otuz y\u0131l yalan s\u00f6yledin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonra g\u00f6zlerini Elif\u2019e \u00e7evirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ben senin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyordum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif\u2019in g\u00f6zleri doldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat\u0131 boyunca babas\u0131n\u0131n kendisini istemedi\u011fine inanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Annem \u00f6ld\u00fc, dedi sessizce. On iki ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Murat ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 e\u011fdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu c\u00fcmle onu y\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2014 Ke\u015fke bilseydim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O gece hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bir anda d\u00fczelmedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif Murat\u2019a sar\u0131lmad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan\u2019\u0131 da hemen affetmedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama ilk kez ge\u00e7mi\u015fin ger\u00e7ek h\u00e2lini biliyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonraki aylarda Murat acele etmedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif\u2019in hayat\u0131na zorla girmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her hafta bir kez onu arad\u0131. Bazen birlikte kahve i\u00e7tiler. Bazen Aylin\u2019den konu\u015ftular.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Murat eski foto\u011fraflar\u0131 getirdi. Elif annesinin gen\u00e7li\u011fini, sevdi\u011fi \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 ve y\u0131llard\u0131r bilmedi\u011fi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hik\u00e2yeleri \u00f6\u011frendi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir y\u0131l sonra baba-k\u0131z ili\u015fkileri art\u0131k yabanc\u0131 iki insan\u0131n konu\u015fmas\u0131na benzemiyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif ona ilk kez \u201cBaba\u201d dedi\u011finde Murat cevap veremedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sadece a\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hasan ise yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatay\u0131 geri alamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyordu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat\u0131n\u0131n kalan y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 ailesinin yan\u0131nda ge\u00e7irdi ve \u00f6lmeden \u00f6nce Elif\u2019e bir mektup b\u0131rakt\u0131:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cBazen bir yalan, bir aileyi y\u0131llarca ay\u0131rabilir. Ger\u00e7ek ac\u0131t\u0131r ama insanlar\u0131 yeniden bir araya getirme \u015fans\u0131 verir.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Elif o eski d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn foto\u011fraf\u0131n\u0131 saklad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama onu ge\u00e7mi\u015fin ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, annesinin bir zamanlar ger\u00e7ekten sevildi\u011fini bilmek i\u00e7in saklad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y\u0131llarca babas\u0131n\u0131n onu terk etti\u011fine inanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ger\u00e7ek ise \u00e7ok farkl\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onu terk eden bir baba yoktu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sadece otuz y\u0131l ge\u00e7 s\u00f6ylenen bir ger\u00e7ek vard\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve sonunda, kaybettikleri y\u0131llar\u0131 geri getiremeseler de kalan y\u0131llar\u0131 birlikte ya\u015famay\u0131 se\u00e7tiler.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bildi\u011fi tek \u015fey, annesi Aylin\u2019in onu tek ba\u015f\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve Elif on iki ya\u015f\u0131ndayken ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi a\u011f\u0131r bir hastal\u0131k sonucu hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011fiydi. Babas\u0131n\u0131 sordu\u011funda ise Aylin hep ayn\u0131 cevab\u0131 verirdi: \u2014 Baz\u0131 insanlar gitmeyi se\u00e7er, k\u0131z\u0131m. Biz kalanlarla ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniriz. Elif zamanla soru sormay\u0131 b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Yirmi sekiz ya\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011finde \u0130stanbul\u2019daki b\u00fcy\u00fck bir otelde organizasyon sorumlusu olarak &#8230; <a title=\"Elif Yal\u00e7\u0131n, annesinin ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hakk\u0131nda neredeyse hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bilmiyordu.\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/?p=1357\" aria-label=\"\u041f\u0440\u043e\u0447\u0438\u0442\u0430\u0442\u044c \u0431\u043e\u043b\u044c\u0448\u0435 \u043e Elif Yal\u00e7\u0131n, annesinin ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hakk\u0131nda neredeyse hi\u00e7bir \u015fey bilmiyordu.\">\u0427\u0438\u0442\u0430\u0442\u044c \u0434\u0430\u043b\u0435\u0435<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1358,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1357","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1357","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1357"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1357\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1359,"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1357\/revisions\/1359"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1357"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1357"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/warmtales.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1357"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}